Choosing a vet shouldn’t feel like potluck or a rush decision made in the middle of an emergency. This is the person you’ll trust with your best mate’s health, wellbeing, pain management, and sometimes their final moments. And just like choosing a doctor for yourself, you want someone who listens, cares, and doesn’t treat your pet like a walking EFTPOS machine.

This is your guide to finding a compassionate, common-sense vet — the kind who still practices medicine like it matters.

Start With Values — Yours and Theirs

Every pet owner has their own beliefs about health, diet, vaccination schedules, natural care, pain management, end-of-life choices, and everything in between. Before you walk into a clinic, take stock of what you value.

Ask yourself:

• Do I prefer natural options when possible?
• Am I comfortable with a vet who pushes pharmaceutical products, or do I want someone more balanced?
• How important is emotional connection and bedside manner?
• Do I need a vet with experience in holistic care, or wildlife, or exotics?
• Do I want a clinic that sees my pet as an individual — not a number on the appointment board?

Once you’re clear on what matters to you, it becomes much easier to spot a mismatch early… and walk away before you get talked into something you never asked for.

Ask Questions Before You Commit (Yes — You’re Allowed To)

Most people rock up to a vet appointment like they’ve got no right to question anything. But you are your pet’s advocate. You’re the voice. You’re the guardian. You’re allowed to ask questions — and the right vet will happily answer them without getting defensive, rushed, or annoyed.

Here are some things worth asking when sussing out a new vet:

• What’s your view on over-vaccination and titre testing?
  (“Titre testing is a simple blood test that checks immunity, so pets aren’t vaccinated unnecessarily.”)
  A balanced vet will talk options, not follow an automated schedule.
• Do you recommend natural options or integrative treatments?
  A compassionate vet won’t roll their eyes — they’ll discuss what’s safe and what isn’t.
• How do you approach pain management, especially for seniors?
• Do you earn commissions or incentives from certain drug companies or food brands?
  (A good vet will be honest. A great vet won’t be pushing products in the first place.)
• What’s your stance on nutrition?
  If the answer is “just feed commercial kibble from the big companies,” and they can’t explain why… that’s a red flag.
• How do you handle anxious or fearful pets?
  Watch their face. Their reaction will tell you everything.

A vet who gets irritated by genuine questions is not your vet.

Look For the Old-School Qualities

Some vets still practice with old-school heart — the kind of bedside manner where they squat down to greet your pet on their level, take time to explain things properly, and don’t guilt you into unnecessary tests or procedures.

These are the qualities that matter:

• Compassion — not scripted sympathy, but genuine empathy.
• Curiosity — they want to get to the bottom of what’s going on.
• Integrity — they don’t prescribe something unless they truly believe it’s needed.
• Patience — even when your dog is zooming in circles or your cat is doing their best “don’t touch me” stance.
• Transparency — especially around costs, options, and long-term care.

You want a vet who treats your pet like a living soul, not a transaction. Someone who became a vet because they love animals… not because drug reps hand out freebies.

 

Emergency Vet vs Everyday Vet — Know the Difference

This is something many pet owners don’t learn until panic strikes at 2 am.

A compassionate everyday vet is essential — but they are not always an emergency clinic.
And emergency hospitals are built for exactly that: emergencies.

Your everyday vet:

• Has your pet’s history
• Knows their personality
• Spends time with you
• Discusses options, natural care, long-term wellbeing
• Provides continuity and trust

Emergency clinics:

• Operate 24/7
• Move fast — sometimes brutally fast
• Are designed for life-or-death situations
• May not share your values, because the priority is survival
• Often feel clinical or rushed (because they must act quickly)

A smart pet owner has both:

1. A values-aligned everyday vet
2. A 24/7 emergency hospital saved in their phone

This prevents panic-driven decisions when seconds matter.

Notice the Subtle Red Flags

Trust your instincts. If something feels off, it probably is. Pay attention to things like:

• Clinics that push expensive brand-name diets before even examining the pet.
• Rushed appointments where you barely get 7 minutes and a sales pitch.
• A vet who dismisses your questions or talks down to you.
• Staff who seem stressed, burnt out, or afraid to speak openly.
• High-pressure recommendations for testing, imaging, or medications without clear reasoning.

A good vet explains.
A bad vet sells.

 

Clinic Culture Matters More Than You Think

You’re not just choosing a vet — you’re choosing a whole team.

Pay attention to:

• How reception greets clients
• How vet nurses handle animals
• Whether staff treat each other with respect
• Whether they look supported or on the edge of burnout
• Whether the clinic feels calm or chaotic
• Whether your pet seems comfortable in the space

Compassionate vets attract compassionate staff.
Toxic vets create toxic clinics.

Observe How They Interact with Your Pet

You learn a LOT in the first thirty seconds.

Watch:

• Do they greet your pet first, or go straight to the computer?
• Do they handle your animal gently, slowly, thoughtfully?
• Do they stay calm if your pet is nervous?
• Do they explain what they’re doing as they do it?
• Do they give your pet time to sniff, settle, or relax first?

A vet who truly sees your animal changes the entire experience.

Fear-Free / Low-Stress Handling — A Big Green Flag

You don’t need a certified “Fear-Free” vet.
You just need someone who respects your animal’s emotional wellbeing.

Look for signs of low-stress handling:

• Treats offered gently
• Exams done on the floor or wherever your pet feels safe
• Slow, soft movements
• Minimal restraint
• Letting the animal approach first
• Pausing if the animal becomes distressed
• Letting you help reassure your pet

This is what compassionate care looks like.

Specialist Referrals Are a Sign of a Good Vet — Not a Bad One

A great vet knows their limits and isn’t afraid to refer.

Australia has excellent specialists in:

• Dermatology
• Ophthalmology
• Orthopaedics
• Behaviour
• Cardiology
• Oncology

Your vet should never try to “wing it” with something outside their expertise.
A confident vet doesn’t keep you in-house to protect their ego — they send you to the right expert.

What to Bring to Your First Appointment

(especially when trying a new vet)

A little preparation goes a long way:

• A list of current medications or supplements
• Photos or videos of symptoms (limping, coughing, unusual behaviour)
• A stool sample if relevant
• A diet list (including treats)
• Your pet’s known fears or triggers
• Written questions so you don’t forget in the moment

This helps the vet help you.

Don’t Wait for a Crisis

Choosing a vet during an emergency is like choosing a partner during a cyclone — you’re not thinking straight.
Do your homework before you need urgent care.

Visit clinics.
Watch how they treat other clients.
Read the room.
Ask questions.
Trust your gut.

Your pet deserves a vet who will walk with you through every stage of their life — not someone who treats them like a number, a profit margin, or an upsell opportunity.

Final Thoughts

Finding the right vet isn’t about finding the fanciest clinic, the newest machines, or the biggest reputation. It’s about finding a human being with heart — someone aligned with your values, who treats your pet like family and respects you as their guardian.

A great vet doesn’t hide behind jargon.
They don’t push products.
They don’t shame you for your choices.
They partner with you.

Because at the end of the day, you’re a team — and your animal deserves nothing less.

©Majella Gee 2025

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